Monday, February 28, 2011

Daffodils.


Chase picked these for me. The first ones to come up in our front yard. The only unfortunate part is that he let himself out the front door to pick them. Yes, alone, in the front yard. But he came right back and exclaimed, holding the flowers behind his back, "Mommmmieeeeeee, I have a surprise for you!"

Today, I'm grateful for the first daffodils of the year and that Chase picked them. Just for me.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Balloons.



Balloons used to make me cringe. It seemed as if they were everywhere. At the park. The grocery store. Outside stores. In restaurants. And these seemingly innocent helium ovals resulted in Lucas throwing a magnificent tantrum.

He still has quite the affinity for balloons but they don't make him go to the floor, screaming as though his hand had been cut off.

Today, I'm thankful balloons don't rule my life.

Friday, February 25, 2011

Once Broken.



I purchased this ballerina statue at a ridiculously low price ($10 - 20?) because one of her hands was broken off. I molded a hand out of baking clay and super glued it on. It's not as good as new but I still love it. I love vintage, love giving new life to old things, love putting things where they don't belong.

Today, I'm grateful for creativity in making what's broken better, for thinking outside the decorating box, for the joy I find in it all.

Thursday, February 24, 2011

My Voice: Published


Editorial to be published in the Tennessean (http://www.tennessean.com) next week:


I stand strongly against the rezoning of Franklin Special School District. Our son, Lucas Breeding, age 5, has a diagnosis of Williams syndrome, a rare genetic disorder, autism spectrum disorder and apraxia of speech.


He attends the Communication and Social Instruction (CSI) class at Poplar Grove Elementary. The community needs to be aware of this program that exists in our area. For some reason, it seems to be a secret to many. This is something we should celebrate as a part of our community.


The communication and social instruction classroom, offered from pre-k until the 8th grade, has dramatically and positively changed Lucas's and our family's life. One of the many benefits to this program is that Poplar Grove elementary offers a balanced calendar. Children with intellectual disabilities can experience severe regression during long breaks which is what the traditional calendar offers. It can take months to recoup the skills lost during a traditional summer break.

If this rezoning is about social agenda, I have one I'd like to share with you. Part of my personal story is about social justice for those with disabilities. The unfortunate thing is these are members of our community who often aren’t able to advocate for themselves, in fact, some cannot communicate at all.

When Lucas started the Poplar Grove CSI class, he was three years old. He could not walk, talk, feed himself, play appropriately, or make eye contact. He tantrumed and would not follow directions. It was debilitating to us as a family.

Today, Lucas is doing many of these things. This progress has been amazing to watch. We are a part of a study at the University of Louisville for children with Williams syndrome. Each year Lucas has two days of intensive testing followed by a meeting with Dr. Carolyn Mervis, cognitive expert in Williams syndrome and director of the study. When she met Lucas, age of two, she considered him to be on the severe end of Williams syndrome. Devastating to hear. A month ago, when we went for testing, Dr. Mervis emphatically stated that he was no longer in the severe range and has progressed to mild.

We believe much of this progress is because of his team at the Poplar Grove CSI preschool class, a balanced calendar and the commitment from the teachers, therapists and administration. A move from “severe” to “mild” is tremendous.

Poplar Grove has spent 11 years working on their program for children with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) as well as other disabilities. ASD is very specific disorder, hindering communication and social interaction and is growing at an alarming rate. It calls for the specialized instruction and the balanced calendar that PGS provides.

What is the plan for the children that don't have a voice? Are we going to trade one minority for the other in the name of equality?


Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Nekkid Ice Cream.



Full of excitement to finish his ice cream after bath, Chase couldn't bother with clothes. Something to admire and try to reflect in our own lives.

Today I'm thankful for the happiness small things can bring to small humans. And eating ice cream with no clothes. Not that I've ever tried it.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Goodbye, my friend.



We said goodbye to our 17 year old Border Collie yesterday.  It was much more difficult than I had anticipated.  What a faithful friend she has been to us.  


Today, I am immensely thankful for the 17 years with had with her.  


"Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole." - Roger Caras

Saturday, February 19, 2011

Sleep.




Today I'm grateful for beautiful, sweet, sleeping children. 

Thursday, February 10, 2011

The Place To Be Right Now.


February.  17 degrees.  Sitting right by a roaring fire. 

Today, I'm thankful for a fire in the fireplace.  

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Emily.


I'll be the first to tell you that as a mom of three, I can't do it all.  Oh, how I know those moms that can exist and I envy them.  You hear you have to have a village to raise a child.  Part of my village includes our part-time nanny/babysitter, Emily.  She is amazing with our children and has tons of experience.  We've known her for years.  I jump up and down with sheer joy on the days she comes. 

Today, I'm grateful for Emily.

Monday, February 7, 2011

Train Tracks.

As much as I curse these trains and tracks when I trip over them, as I did today, I realize I should be grateful because they most certainly will not always be there. 

Today, I'm grateful for the train tracks constantly underfoot. 

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Friday, February 4, 2011

Fun Jewelry.

I love this somewhat kitschy yet completely stylish yet totally unaffordable bracelet.  I have no idea why I can't get the photo to sit straight. 


Today, I'm thankful for creative jewelry and the artists who create it.  Even if I can't afford it!

This Land is Your Land, This Land is my Land.

Busy day. 

In our United States, we are allowed freedom of speech, the right to worship at our own descretion, the priveledge of having a government one can complain about and praise according to their beliefs.

My native country, thee,
Land of the noble free,
Thy name I love;
I love thy rocks and rills,
Thy woods and templed hills,
My heart with rapture thrills.

Today, I am thankful for my country.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Tubtime.

Just pure and simple clean, fresh, wet-haired baby.

Today, I'm grateful for how completely wonderful a freshly bathed baby is. 

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Girlfriends.

What would I do without my girls?  Girlfriends laugh, cry, complain, rejoice and provide much needed support and therapy to one another.  Most of mine are with children as well so conversations are not fluid and easy.  I've noticed there is lots of spelling of words these days (to protect innocent ears).  But somehow, between the "you need to share" and "stop the whining", there is still room for much needed socializing with the amazing and beautiful women in my life.  I cherish these friendships. Each and every one.  Here's to you, all my strong, talented and delightful girlfriends. 

Today, I am immensely grateful for my dear girlfriends.  I simply don't know what I would do without them.